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Counselling Christchurch

Welcome to our one-stop destination for men's counselling services in Christchurch.


 We do a first meeting with you aiming to figure out what you want in a counsellor, and see if there is anything else you want/ need to do to accomplish your goals.


We are not trying to sell you counselling at all and will tell you honestly the options we know that are available and what you might want to try.


Counselling Services: Our dedicated team of experienced professionals offers a variety of counselling services to address the specific needs of men. Whether you're dealing with anger management, depression, domestic abuse, or relationship issues, we are here to help you navigate through these challenges.


Private Counselling: We offer confidential and private counselling sessions to ensure you have a safe space to discuss your concerns openly. Your privacy and comfort are our top priorities.


Male Survivor Support: We understand that men can be survivors of traumatic experiences too. Our specialised male survivor support programs are designed to provide healing and recovery for those who have faced difficult situations.

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     Anger Management: Managing anger is a vital aspect of emotional well-being. Our anger management counselling empower you with the tools and techniques to control and express your emotions constructively. 


    Affordable Treatment: We believe that everyone deserves access to quality counselling services. We strive to keep the cost of counselling affordable, ensuring that financial constraints don't hinder your journey towards better mental health. 


    At our counselling centre, we are committed to addressing men's issues comprehensively and effectively. 


    Our one-stop approach means you can find all the support you need under one roof.


     If you're seeking therapy, drug addiction support, or any other counselling services, we're here to assist you.


    Take the first step towards a brighter future and reach out to us for counselling services tailored to men's needs in Christchurch. 


    Your well-being is our priority, and we are here to support you on your journey to a healthier and happier life.


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Anger Management Counselling Christchurch

Anger Management Therapy: Our experienced therapists specialise in anger management therapy, offering effective strategies and support to help individuals manage their anger constructively.


Tailored Treatment: We understand that anger issues can vary, so our services cater to different needs, including therapy for teens 18+ years and adults alike.

We provide tailored treatment plans to address your specific concerns.


Online and In-Person Options: Whether you prefer the convenience of at-home counselling or the structure of in-person sessions, we offer both online and traditional counselling services to meet your preferences.


Cost-Effective Solutions: Managing anger shouldn't break the bank. We provide cost-effective counselling services, ensuring that quality therapy is accessible to everyone.






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    Supportive Group Sessions: Sometimes, sharing experiences with others who face similar challenges can be incredibly helpful. 


    We offer counseling sessions where you can connect with others on a journey to anger management.


    Autism-Aware Counseling: We recognise the unique needs of individuals with autism. Our therapists are trained to provide specialised support to those on the autism spectrum dealing with anger management issues.


    Management Issues Test: Unsure if you need anger management counseling? 


    Take our management issues test to gain insight into your anger-related concerns.


    At our center, we believe in providing holistic support for anger management. 


    Our one-stop approach means you can access a range of services, including therapy, classes, and resources, all under one roof.


    Whether you're seeking help for yourself or a loved one, our goal is to help you develop healthier ways of dealing with anger and achieving a more balanced and fulfilling life. 


    Contact us today to take the first step toward effective anger management.


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Depression & Anxiety Counselling Christchurch

Welcome to our one-stop destination for depression & anxiety counselling services in Christchurch.


 We understand the challenges that come with mental health issues like depression and anxiety and are here to provide comprehensive support.


Symptoms and Understanding: Our experienced therapists can help you recognise and understand the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and related disorders. We're here to listen and guide you through this journey.


Effective Treatments: We offer a range of evidence-based treatments, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), for addressing conditions such as major depressive disorder and generalised anxiety disorder.


Our goal is to help you find the best therapy for your specific needs.


Anxiety Counselling: We offer anxiety counselling sessions where you can share experiences and strategies for managing anxiety.


Self-Therapy Resources: We provide resources and guidance for self-therapy, helping you develop coping skills and techniques that can reduce anxiety and depression.




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    Expert Therapists and Psychologists: Our team of therapists and psychologists is dedicated to providing you with the highest level of care. They have the expertise to guide you through your journey to better mental health.




    Anxiety Treatment Without Medication: We understand that some individuals prefer non-medication approaches. Our therapy options include anxiety treatment without medication, offering you alternative paths to relief.


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    Comprehensive Counselling Services: Whether you're seeking individual therapy, specialised treatment, we offer a comprehensive range of counselling services to meet your needs.




    Anxiety Reduction Techniques: We can teach you effective strategies on how to reduce anxiety immediately, equipping you with tools to manage anxiety in real-time.



    If you're dealing with depression, anxiety, or related issues, we are here to support you. 


    Our one-stop approach means you can access a variety of services and resources, all focused on helping you achieve mental wellness. 




    Don't hesitate to reach out, take a test, or connect with our therapists to start your journey towards a happier and healthier life.


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Alice Stevens

Bachelor of Counselling, Provisional Member, Registered with NZAC

Alice is passionate about helping people to reach their full potential in life. Her past experience lies in the creative field, and she believes that creativity can offer a new way of viewing the problems we face;


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    therefore, she brings this through into her counselling work. 


    Alongside of this, Alice is compassionate and creates a safe, non-judgemental environment where people can feel accepted and heard. 


    Alice uses a strengths-based narrative approach alongside of a person-centred modality, both of these methods used together can meet the person where they are at, as well as draw on each person’s unique strengths in order to bring them to a place of healing and growth.

Mata Samatua

Dip. Couns , Provisional Member, Registered with NZAC

Mata was born in Rarotonga and raised in New Zealand. She has devoted her earlier life into raising her two children into adulthood.

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    Now after working on her own personal challenges. Mata is committed to supporting her counselling clients on their own journey of self-discovery and healing.


    Mata works principally from the framework of the person-centred modality while also incorporating techniques from Behavioural Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, and Solution focus in her support of clients with depression, anxiety, anger management, abuse and family issues.


    Mata works with a wide range of client across all ages and ethnicities. When she is not working, Mata is focused on her extended family and is an active member of her local Toast Masters Club.


    One-on-One Counselling & Couples Counselling

Phil Taylor

Dip Counselling PMNZAC

Phil describes himself as a “60`s child who was born and raised in Christchurch” He I loves camping, fishing, sports and music of any kind.


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    In his early life Phil was a “tradie”, working in the agricultural sector along with being a stay at home dad.


    It was Phil’s own experience of mental health that led him to study and train as a counsellor in his late forties. 


    He graduated in Person-Centered Counselling in 2011\12. Initially, He worked at the Men`s Centre as a volunteer then left to be a Family counsellor in North Canterbury in 2017.


     He has now returned to the Men’s Center one day a week (currently).


    Phil also operates a private practice in North Canterbury. He says he has an eclectic way of working with people, using tools such as acceptance-commitment therapy, solution-focus therapy and Gestalt among others.


     It is Phil’s belief that no one therapy works for everyone therefore he has a wide range of tools to draw on. He enjoys working with clients living with depression, suicidal thoughts, loss and grief, anxiety, relationship issues and more.


    Mai i te Kopae ki te Urupu, tatou ako tonu ai.


    From the cradle to the grave, we are forever learning.


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William Walmsley (Will)

Registered AOD Practitioner and Counsellor (Dapaanz)

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    Will grew up in New Brighton and attended school there. Life changed for him when

    his mother died during his teenage years. 


    This tipped him into a roller coaster of

    depression and eventually drug dependency. At age 30 a significant life event

    changed Will’s world view and his focus became supporting others. 


    This has led to his becoming a youth worker and then an adult educator (Christchurch College of

    education) and later a group facilitator.


    Today Will is a clinical manager working within a custodial space and is passionate

    about helping men to make meaningful changes in their lives and realising their

    potential. 


    He brings to his counselling work at the Canterbury Men’s Centre his own

    lived experience of mental health and addiction along with twenty-seven years of life

    and work experience.


    Having a love of travel Will has journeyed extensively through Europe and also

    worked in the UK. 


    He is a motorcycle enthusiast and enjoys spending time with his two boys


    One-on-One Counselling

Pretty Brown

Bachelor of Counselling, Provisional Member NZAC

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    Are you grappling with feelings of distress and a sense of displacement, yearning for a 

    compassionate presence to share your burdens? 


    You don't have to navigate these 

    emotions alone; together, let's explore your journey. Having immigrated from Zambia, I 

    intimately comprehend the challenges of acclimating to a foreign land. 


    The process of integrating into a new culture can be daunting, with its unique set of obstacles. In my counselling approach, I deeply value the principles of the Treaty of Waitangi, namely Participation, Protection, and Partnership. 


    We all crave connection, yet finding someone to confide in can be elusive. 


    When life feels overwhelming, don't hesitate to reach out to me. I'm here to accompany you on your path, offering empathetic listening and unwavering support. 


    Together, we can co-create a safe and nurturing space where your experience can unfold organically. 


    I believe every individual is an expert on their own story. 


    I offer a therapeutic stance that 

    promotes flourishing using Person-Centred Therapy and Narrative Therapy. With no 

    judgment but to lend a sounding board. 

     

Regina Webb

Counsellor

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    I am a qualified and experienced counsellor committed to helping individuals and couples overcome the challenges they face and live more fulfilling lives.


    As a counsellor, I believe every person has the strength and resilience to overcome difficulties. My role is to provide a safe and supportive space for them to explore their feelings and experiences.


     I use a person-centred approach, which means I work collaboratively with my clients to understand their unique needs and goals and develop a personalized treatment plan that suits them.


    I have extensive experience working with clients on various issues, including depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, and relationship issues.


     I use evidence-based therapies, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Mindfulness-Based Therapy, to help my clients develop the skills and insights they need to overcome their difficulties and improve their quality of life.


    I offer counselling services for both individual and couples settings. I am committed to creating a safe and supportive environment for all my clients, regardless of their backgrounds or circumstances. I am an ally of the LGBTQ+ community and welcome clients from all walks of life.


    If you’re struggling with any of the issues I’ve mentioned or simply feel stuck or overwhelmed in your life, I’m here to help. Please feel free to get in touch with me to schedule a consultation and take the first step towards a happier, healthier you.


    One-on-One Counselling & Couples Counselling



Donne McKelvey

Bachelor of Counselling, Registered with NZAC,

 Donne completed her Bachelor in Counselling at Vision College.

She is has a strong interest in family systems work building on her many years as a Plunket nurse and parenting group leader.


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    In addition, she has a particular strength in working with people struggling with mental health challenges.


    She is enjoying her work at the Men’s Centre supporting her clients to be great fathers and partners. 


    Donne works from both a Person-centred and Cognitive perspective aligning with client needs at each session.


    One-on-One Counselling

Greg Healey

Counsellor


I moved to Aotearoa/New Zealand in 2017, to be with my Kiwi partner, and lived in Auckland for two years before settling in her home town, Ōtautahi/Christchurch.


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    I was awarded an M.Sc. In the Psychology of Human Potential by Liverpool John Moore’s University in 1996 and developed my interest in how we relate to significant people in our lives, so, 


    I followed this training as a relationship counsellor with Relate UK where I worked for 20 years until I moved to Aotearoa.


    I have experience with supporting autistic clients and their relationship partners. I am an experienced provider of Couple Therapy for Depression with the Tavistock Institute London.


    I have 30 years’ experience as a Science teacher in the UK and Sweden and I am a proud grandfather. I offer couple and individual counselling.


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Luisa Ramos

B. Sc (Psychology), Master of Counselling

My aim is to help each individual function at his best. I offer a safe place for him to express self freely and to illuminate his own thoughts and feelings along with his inner power.


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    My therapy style is rooted in Existentialism, Person-centred Approach and SFBT and I offer short-term or long-term therapy.


    The therapeutic process might help the individual to develop lasting tools/strategies to overcome his concerning issues at the present time or issues he may encounter in the future.


     It also might facilitate the journey of awakening the self's ability to feel, heal and grow, so he may be able to experience a more meaningful and enjoyable life.


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Mel Rodrick

Counsellor,Dip. Couns., Member Registered with NZAC

 I have been counselling here at the Canterbury Men’s Centre since November 2011. I’m Indian by birth, Kiwi by nationality and international through experience.


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    In a previous life, I’ve had twenty plus years of marketing and sales experience, nine of these years in Dubai. 


    The time I spent abroad exposed me to interesting cultural experiences throughout the Middle East, Africa, Europe, the C.I.S (After the breakup of the U.S.S.R) South East Asia and the Far East.For the last ten years in New Zealand, I’ve been involved in the Mental Health and AOD sector.


     This diversity of experiences has consolidated my awareness and learning that life is to be celebrated. As a counsellor, I’m privileged to be a part of that process.


     So come visit and share your experiences with us and have a laugh, because as a wise man once said “Laughter is the key to heaven”.


    I have studied various modalities of counselling and psychotherapy. I am also a certified Neuro Linguistic and Neuro Semantic Practitioner.


     My experience has enabled me to develop an Integrated Style of counselling, with an Outcome Focused approach, specifically in couples counselling.


     I have successfully counselled hundreds of couples in their times of conflict.


    My core belief is that all relationships have situations, which due to a lack of communication coalesce into ‘Problems’.


     My focus is to help You’ll identify what each of you wants in your relating to each other and then facilitate Conflict Resolution strategies to enable You’ll to attain your goals.


    I also focus on the neuro-psychotherapy of the brain; enabling couples to understand how to change from ‘Reacting’ to ‘Responding’. 


    This helps retrain the brain against thinking and reacting improperly to any negative cognition or triggers that may present in your future. It would be my privilege to accompany you on your journey to peace and love.


    One-on-One/ Couples Counselling

Chris Frost

Student Counsellor

 Tēnā koe ko Chris taku ingoa. Chris is in his 2nd year at Vision Collage completing his Bachelor in Counselling. As a self-diagnosed adult with ADHD, Chris brings a wealth compassion and understanding to his counselling practice.

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    A committed father and husband, who with his wife has fostered several children, Chris has an understanding of the difficulties families face, both with the systems within which people work, and the realities of parenting through challenging times. 


    Chris has a long-standing compassion and desire to support those who are seeking something more and has worked in drug and alcohol rehab with young people, as well as a significant period of time overseas living and working with disadvantaged families. 


    The desire to work with men, to build mana and find hope is central to his worldview.


     Chris is person-centred in his approach to counselling, working with people, and at their speed.


    One-on-One Counselling

Barry Mathers

Dip Counselling PMNZAC

Barry has a varied career which includes working with street kids in Christchurch, the commercial forestry sector, river bank restoration, testing for the New Zealand Aids Foundation and now counselling.


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    My training is in person-centred counselling where I walk alongside you through your times of difficulty helping you to better understand yourself. 


    I have three adult children, have been through separation and divorce, and came out later in life.


     I am a great fan of men's groups where men support men to be better men, co-founded a gay men's group and co-facilitated the Mensline support group held at the Mens centre.


     My interests seem to be heading toward working with grief and trauma and helping men through those challenging change times in life.


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Waiting List

We typically meet with the individual within the first week, or sometimes sooner, depending on his availability.

WINZ Disability Allowance

You might qualify for the WINZ Disability Allowance, which can assist in covering your counselling expenses. we will help you through the process.

Weekends & Evenings

Minimum fee: $75. Initial weekend or evening sessions suggested at $75 but not a barrier if it's a hardship.

StudyLink

We support you to work through the process if you are eligible.

Directions

21,Marshland Road, Shirley,Christchurch. 8064


We also provide a counselling service from rooms in Kaiapoi and can refer you to counselling services in Ashburton.


Opening Hours

Contact 9-5, Mon-Fri for initial appointments. After 5 pm incurs an extra cost. Ongoing counselling from 8 am to 9:30 pm, Mon-Fri, and weekends too.

FAQ On Counselling

  • What are men's issues in counselling?

    The phrase "men's issues" encompasses a wide range of challenges that men may encounter, such as difficulties with anger management, struggles with addiction, intimacy issues, experiences of domestic violence, mid-life crises, coping with grief or loss, and grappling with mental health issues like anxiety or depression.


    For example, organisations like the Canterbury Men's Centre are dedicated to addressing these multifaceted concerns and providing support for men in their community.


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  • How do you know if a guy needs counselling or therapy?

    Real men go to counselling: Know the signs of depression in men.


    Emotions of guilt, worthlessness, and helplessness.


    Pervasive pessimism and overwhelming hopelessness.


    Persistent fatigue and a lack of energy.


    Heightened irritability and short temper.


    Profound feelings of loneliness and isolation.


    Additional signs of depression in men may include:


    Changes in appetite and weight, such as overeating or loss of interest in food.


    Difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or focusing on tasks.


    Escalating physical symptoms like headaches, stomachaches, or muscle aches.


    Increased use of alcohol or other substances as a coping mechanism.


    A decline in interest or pleasure in activities that were once enjoyed.


    Restlessness or trouble sleeping, often characterised by insomnia or excessive sleep.


    Thoughts of self-harm or suicide, which should be taken seriously and promptly addressed.


    Seeking counselling & therapy is a courageous step for anyone dealing with these symptoms, as it can provide valuable guidance and assistance in managing and recovering from depression.


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  • Do men do better with male or female counsellors?

    The effectiveness of counselling, whether with a male or female counsellor, is not solely determined by gender.


     It primarily depends on individual preferences, comfort, and the specific issues the person seeks to address.


     Some men may feel more at ease with a counsellor of the same gender due to shared experiences and a perceived sense of understanding.


     Others may prefer a counselor of a different gender for various reasons, such as feeling less judged or finding it easier to open up.


    Ultimately, the key factor in successful counselling is the quality of the therapeutic relationship, the expertise of the counsellor, and their ability to create a safe and supportive environment.


     It's essential for individuals, regardless of gender, to choose a counselor with whom they feel a strong connection and who can effectively address their specific needs and concerns.


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  • Can counselling help with anger?

    Counsellors can help individuals in several ways, including:


    Identifying Triggers: Counsellors can work with clients to identify the specific situations, thoughts, or emotions that trigger their anger.


    Developing Coping Strategies: Through counselling, individuals can learn healthy coping strategies to manage their anger and respond to triggers in a more constructive manner.


    Communication Skills: Counsellors can teach clients effective communication skills to express their feelings and needs without resorting to anger.


    Stress Reduction: Addressing underlying stressors and teaching stress reduction techniques can help reduce anger levels.


    Self-awareness: Counselling can help individuals gain insight into their emotions, recognise early signs of anger, and develop emotional intelligence.


    Conflict Resolution: Learning how to resolve conflicts in a non-confrontational and productive way is an important part of anger management counselling.


    Counselling can be particularly beneficial for individuals struggling with chronic anger issues or those whose anger has negatively impacted their personal or professional relationships.


     If you or someone you know is experiencing anger-related challenges, seeking the guidance of a trained counsellor can be a constructive step towards managing and reducing anger.


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